Gaining Self-confidence From Within

How to get self-confidence is the central blog when tackling the development of self-confidence in an individual who, for long, have believed that his self-worth is deficient.

It goes without saying that those confident individuals can bear themselves better than those who have a lower sense of the “self”. They are the achievers, the people in the limelight and the center of the society. They walk straight; speak their meanings very well and influence people, both subtly and obviously. In short, they are those who care recognizable even from afar.

Sometimes, self-confident people are very much loved by society. It is maybe due to their charisma or they are, by nature very amiable. However, there are those self-confident individuals who, just by leaving make the room lighter.

These are two very different types of self-confidence. One destroys a person’s credibility and the other intensifies his personality. Obviously, you don’t want the consequences of being too confident of yourself that the people no longer view you as effective, instead they see you as annoyance to their daily affairs.

Self-confidence comes from within. Outside stimulation may help but it would all still boil down to knowing yourself and using that knowledge to gain confidence.

To get self-confidence, you must realize that your limitations must not limit you and your attributes must not destroy you. Instead, use all of these factors to develop a personality that would be productive for you and all those that surround you.

“Know thyself!”, says the Oracle at Delphi. Though this might have been said thousands of years ago, it is undeniably true that we still can use the wisdom it says.

Know yourself and get confidence. Recognize though that knowledge comes nowhere but inside you. Thus, you have to accept the reality that unless you embrace your flaws and perfection, the demons of low self-confidence would stay forever lingering in your being.

There is a great risk in knowing too much of yourself though if your foundations of self-control is not much too developed. You’ll be exposed to your imperfections and since control is not yet yours, it is possible that you will be eaten by your own flows. This condition is closely intertwined with thought rumination wherein you seem to go around in your circle of thoughts about your losses and failures regardless of your achievements.

Another danger of having no control of yourself while trying to get self-confidence is that you might get too confident that you would forget the real value of having the sense of self. As we have mentioned earlier, overconfidence is just as dangerous as having no confidence at all. This would send you back to failures or worse to an eventual downfall.

Knowing yourself is one factor that may be either dangerous or productive. Self-awareness often helps people realize how wonderful their creation was. They learn to give worth to their capacities and attributes that are obviously as special as those that may be found with other people. We are all unique and that is a fact. Our marks of uniqueness can be seen through closely looking at our capabilities and our incapacities. Our uniqueness is manifested in the natural gifts that add to our greater self-value. Our uniqueness can be seen through our potentials that we may either ignore or maximize at will.

All these are truths that would stay hidden to you unless you have learned to contemplate on your being and be aware of who you truly are.

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